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Confidence is Sexy
He walks
down the street with a purpose to his step, and people notice him. He is
aware of this. He especially likes the looks he gets from the ladies.
She is
sitting on a bench awaiting the 10:15 bus to arrive when she sees him
approach from the opposite end of the street. There is just something
about the way he carries himself. If she were asked to describe him
using only one word, that one word would be: S-E-X-Y!!!!
Confidence
is sexy in both men and women. However, the amount of confidence that
should can be displayed and still considered to be sexy differs between
the sexes. Some women have had the misfortune of being labeled cold or
uptight for appearing too confident. Whereas the same amount of
confidence, when shown by a man does not draw such harsh criticisms.
Confidence
sends a message of strength, bravery, competence, and skill to others.
These positive qualities tend to attract others to the confident person.
People are more likely to look for the guidance of a confident person in
times of trouble and crisis. This is because confident people are
strongly believed to be more level-headed, able to think beyond
emotions when problems or emergencies arise. Confident people tend to
rise further in work careers and in other areas of life because their
strong belief in themselves results in the trust of others, especially
of those who can help them to further careers and social standings.
The appeal
of these qualities so often equated with confidence, (strength, bravery,
competence, and skill) hearkens back to the time of the cave man. It was
only those cave men who showed great confidence, strength, bravery,
competence, and skill against such great adversity,
who won the affections of cave women. Confident cave women appealed to
cave men because it signaled that she was also quite capable of surviving
the harshness of the world they were living in at the time. This
encouraged mating between cave men and women, allowing the continuing
survival of the human species despite the heavy-perils to life that
savage animals and environmental conditions presented for man
at the time.
Today most
of us live in comfortable homes, safely protected from the elements.
None of us has ever had to face-down a lion in a battle for life and
limb. Sexual relations aren’t just for the sole purpose of the
continuance of the human species as it was back then. The steady growth
of human populations throughout the world is testament to the fact that
the human species is not in jeopardy of being lost. Still, we find
confidence just as sexually-appealing today as those early cave men and
women did.
You can
gain the confidence that will get you where you want to go in your career and
life. Build your confidence. Walk with a purpose to your step. Draw the
attention you desire from the opposite sex with the best known aphrodisiac:
confidence!
Did you
know that exercise can help boost your confidence levels? Have you ever
noticed how the really fit guy in the gym confidently lifting large
weights, always seems to have a crowd of gals close to him? Have you
wished for that kind of appeal to the ladies? Or how about the woman
that men just can’t seem to take their eyes off of, out on the dance floor
with her tight, toned body, confidently grooving to the music? Would you
like to have what she has? You can have the confident and fit body that
commands the attention of others, through exercise. Learn how exercise
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